I have not got my house in order yet. We moved a couple of months ago, and still I do not have pictures on the wall or anything hung up. It is all piled in the hallway. Isn't that pitiful. I just have not found the time for extra things like that. Regular housework takes my time and I can't seem to find any extra.
The bf is hanging out with an old friend of his, I also know this guy from way back. He has made a couple of comments to me... such as when bf makes a smartass comment, friend will say, "you know you don't have to take that crap". He sorta says it in a flirty way. I am not sure if he is only kidding, or if he is kidding with a serious note behind it. I guess that will remain to be seen. More about this at a later date.
I had a pretty crappy weekend. The bf picked up his daughter on Friday, and she brought a friend with her. I had no idea the friend was coming. So then I was stuck with them all weekend. I do not know why he even picks her up, he dosen't spend any time with her at all. I just do not think it is my responsibility to take complete care of his child while he is out going wherever he wants. Tell me if I am wrong. I would really appreciate advice on this one. I do not dislike this child, she and I get along fine. I just do not think she should be dumped on me for a weekend, when he is her father. He saw her maybe a total of 3-4 hours all weekend, and that time line is a stretch. I doubt it was that much. Friday he picked her up brought her and friend to house, fixed them some food and then about 9 p.m. he left and did not come back homem, til the next morning. Then he was home for long enough to shower and change clothes and then he was gone again, home that night prob about 10-11 p.m. Sunday same thing, he gets up and leaves. I end up taking her home on Sunday. Please I welcome comments on this subject, am I just being selfish. HELP ME>
The bf is hanging out with an old friend of his, I also know this guy from way back. He has made a couple of comments to me... such as when bf makes a smartass comment, friend will say, "you know you don't have to take that crap". He sorta says it in a flirty way. I am not sure if he is only kidding, or if he is kidding with a serious note behind it. I guess that will remain to be seen. More about this at a later date.
I had a pretty crappy weekend. The bf picked up his daughter on Friday, and she brought a friend with her. I had no idea the friend was coming. So then I was stuck with them all weekend. I do not know why he even picks her up, he dosen't spend any time with her at all. I just do not think it is my responsibility to take complete care of his child while he is out going wherever he wants. Tell me if I am wrong. I would really appreciate advice on this one. I do not dislike this child, she and I get along fine. I just do not think she should be dumped on me for a weekend, when he is her father. He saw her maybe a total of 3-4 hours all weekend, and that time line is a stretch. I doubt it was that much. Friday he picked her up brought her and friend to house, fixed them some food and then about 9 p.m. he left and did not come back homem, til the next morning. Then he was home for long enough to shower and change clothes and then he was gone again, home that night prob about 10-11 p.m. Sunday same thing, he gets up and leaves. I end up taking her home on Sunday. Please I welcome comments on this subject, am I just being selfish. HELP ME>
posted by Lilsoutherngirl at 9:47 AM
5 Comments:
No, you are not selfish! Don't think that for one minute.
He is taking advantage of you. It would be different if he were there and you were doing things like a family. But if he's just dumping her on you and then leaving, that is wrong. He is the selfish one.
Your boyfriend's friend is right, you don't have to take that crap.
(((Big Hugs))) to you!
1)Buy a hammer.
Then when he's asleep beat the living fuck out of his head. Dont clean up the mess. Go to a hotel room. Get a couple of insanity lawyers.
Or not.
2) Call the police and tell them theres been a fight and to hurry, Then put a brick in an oven mit, walk up to him on the couch and draw back anf hit him in the head with the mit as hard as you can.
Hurry and hid the brick and put the mit in the bottom of the trash can, then go to a door facing and mess up your face. They will take pictures. If the ask how his head injury happened say y'all was up fighting and hit it on the door facing.
Or not.
Write him and note and tell him you're leavingm then leave.
King you are so funny.
EWW! You are not being selfish!!! He is being a DICKHEAD!
His poor daughter! At least she has you there...
((HUGS))
You are so not being selfish,how old is his daughter? It seems so unfair on her as well as you that he does this! You are a good woman to look after her and run her home!
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